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Learning Self-Control

Preschool

What We Saw: During lunchtime one teacher exclaimed, "I like vegetables". A child joined in saying; "I like barbecue sauce". Another child chimed in and said, "I like anchovy pizza". A teacher said to the children at her table, "I'm going to describe a food I like and you try to guess it. It's long and white and you can put sauce on it". After a few guesses, one child guessed that it was spaghetti. Then a child said, "I like something light yellow that's a circle and has a top on it". With a few more clues someone guessed an onion. Another child said, "I like something that is brown and grows in my garden and there's a rainbow inside". The teacher asked for more clues. No one could guess this so the child said proudly, "It's rainbow cabbage!"


What It Means: Turn taking and waiting patiently to talk are long term goals that teachers plan for to help children to learn self control. To become turn takers, children need modeling and guidance. What conscientious teachers do, how they do it, and how they speak to children serve as models for ways to interact with other people. Playing guessing games with children is a fun way to encourage listening skills in children because they truly want to help solve the "riddle". When the guessing game is relevant to the activity that the children are engaged in, the learning becomes very meaningful.

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