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Key Strengths for Families
Strong families are the basis of our communities,
says Joan E. LeFebvre, University of Wisconsin-Extension Family Living
Agent serving Vilas, Forest, and Florence Counties. Five key areas
contribute to family strengths.
Communication:
Members of strong families communicate their
feelings and concerns. They are quick to listen and respond to what others
have to say. Family members regularly discuss values and beliefs important
to them. Parents consistently encourage and model their own values.
Pride and Loyalty:
Healthy families promote each others happiness and
welfare and are committed to the family as a group. They are proud to be a
part of it. A healthy family honors its elders and welcome its babies.
Caring and Affirming:
Strong families affirm, trust, and support one
another. They show affection and give praise and encouragement. Support
and affection is evenly distributed among family members. Healthy families
spend quality time together but also allow individual family members
privacy and time to pursue independent interests and relationships.
Family and Community Ties:
Healthy families are connected to other individuals
and institutions for emotional and practical support. If difficult
problems arise the family seeks outside help. Strong families are involved
with community institutions such as schools, churches and local
organizations.
Decision Making:
Healthy families adapt their power structure, role
relationships and rules in response to the situation. Each person has
input. Everyone, including children, shares power and decision making.
Explanations for family rules and reasons for disciplining children are
clearly communicated.
For more information or a copy of a tool to discover
your family strengths, contact Joan E. LeFebvre, University Extension
Family Living Agent serving Vilas, Forest, and Florence Counties,
Courthouse, Eagle River, WI 54521, (715-479-3653), e-mail joan.lefebvre@ces.uwex.edu
or visit the web site for Parenting the Preschooler at
www.uwex.edu/ces/flp/pp. UW-Extension
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